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9 Powerful Tips to Command Any Room

1. Remember Others’ Names

  • People love hearing their name (bonus points for remembering loved ones’ too)
  • It’s a simple way to build a connection and show you care

2. Hone Your Body Language

  • Stand tall, shoulders back, firm handshake, you’ll own the room
  • Body language speaks louder than words; make it count

3. Use the SHR Method

  • See them, hear without interrupting, and recall a detail later
  • Builds instant trust; your teams will feel recognized

4. Foster Psychological Safety

  • Lead with empathy, encourage risks, and make space for ideas
  • Teams shine when they’re not afraid to speak up

5. Use Humour

  • Humour is the easiest way to break the ice
  • A well-timed laugh makes you relatable and magnetic

6. Remember the Shadow Rule

  • Don’t hide your flaws; imperfection makes you human
  • Own your quirks; it’s how you build authenticity

7. Practice the 30% Rule

  • Pause 3 seconds before replying, think, then speak
  • You’ll sound composed and in control every time

8. Embrace Tough Conversations

  • High-functioning teams aren’t afraid of healthy conflict
  • Tackle conflict and feedback head-on with honesty

9. Ask Rapport-Building Questions

  • Spark curiosity with surprising but interesting questions
  • It’ll make you memorable and enjoy conversations more

Executive presence isn’t a mystery. It’s a skill you can learn and master.